“The reason why we fight with insecurity is because we compare our behind-the-scenes with everyone else’s highlight reel.”
Are you often comparing yourself to others? Maybe to some friends, family member, some famed person on social media? If your answer is yes, then you are in the right place at the right time.
If you are reading this article your good time has started now and now you are craving a renovation of your own.
Of course, social comparison begins at very primary age. Children learn very fast that not everybody lives the same life or has a similar chance as them. They perceive how some friends have better clothes, more toys, a big house, car etc. When these kids grow older and become teenagers, the comparing doesn’t stop. It often strengthens and goes into negative self-talk. Feelings like “I am not good enough,” “I can’t do anything well,” or “I will never make it” slowly start sneaking into their thoughts. This type of unhappy thinking triggers them to develop anxiety and depression-like desires, which might endure well into their parenthood years.
Never ever compare yourself with others. If you do compare then you are inviting problem to yourself. If you have that habit stop right now no matter what happens in your life. Try to stop comparing habits as it will corrode your beautiful life.
Comparison is nothing but a self-centred enemy, it is like disease which slowly kills you.
Many fights happening out there was because of the comparisons with each other. As no one wants to become inferior. Of course, each and every person wants to be superior.
Comparison is also a big blooper for your success. It will kill you prematurely.
Comparison is the robber of happiness
Many of us know that comparing ourselves with others will not give peace of mind though many are doing same mistakes again and again. Comparing yourself with other only makes your life hard and brings you gloom and agony. Instead, try it positive way like use others as inspiration to work harder and achieve better.
Comparison will stall your growth
If you devote your times comparing yourself to other people triumphs, you will certainly not get anything accomplished. You must devote all your energy and time into pursuing your own goals and dreams. So, don’t waste your valuable time on comparison.Start your personal makeover and step on your road to make your life best.