Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude. – Thomas Jefferson
To achieve our goals, we need to change our behavior and ultimately become a better version of ourselves. Just think, in gadgets we always prefer for latest version, better display, clarity and so on. When it comes to our goal, why don’t we update ourselves to achieve our goal? (it is essential to update ourselves to achieve our goal.)
Initially you need to eliminate certain unproductive and unhealthy activities because it distracts you in many ways or slow your progress and which keep you from moving forward. so it really important.
Anticipations
Stop anticipating too much. It is a disparaging behavior which gives disappointment in your life.
Some people always expect things in certain way, and expect people to have like as you expected when it doesn’t work, you feel sad and lose motivation.
So first drain these unreality you live in, remove the scenarios you play in your head of how things should be, instead accept them as they are and keep doing what you know is right.
There are some people who suspect you and if you listen to their words you may lose hope. So stop listening negative words.
Also, there are chances for many temptations on your way to success. Sometimes you may feel that life is unfair because others have lot of time to enjoy, eat different foods etc. and you can’t.
But that is fabricated.
Because you fixed the goal and you are working to achieve your goal and striving for better life. Whereas others chose the easier way of living, spoiling in activities which just brings temporary happiness.
Failure
The difference between average people and achieving people is their perception of and response to failure. – john C maxwell
I’ve always found that anything worth achieving will always have obstacles in the way and you’ve got to have that drive and determination to overcome those obstacles on route to whatever it is that you want to accomplish. – Chuck Norris
We all have a wrong insight of what failure is in these days? Many people panic and don’t even stab because of the chance of not successive. And that is the reason they certainly not see their dreams come true.
But the fact, failure is a valuable gift and it is an unavoidable step on your way to success. You should learn from your failure and don’t do that again.
Failure teaches you a lesson, it gives you experience, it gives you will power, it makes your stronger, it makes you more focused, it teaches you what not to do next time.
Just keep trying to reach your goal, finally you will get there.
Best example is Thomas Edison. Proof of power of failure and he took it positively and finally he succeeded.
Concentrating on the end result
I can understand that you are very eager to reach your goal and there is something inside us which make us impatient. But you need to realize that things won’t work just like that.
The best thing you can do is, enjoy the process and focus fewer on the end result.
Shortage of Constancy
Constancy is very important. Do your work every day, if you don’t do your work every day, you won’t see growth.
Constancy is feature of successful people, and it becomes a habit, as everything else. Without constancy you won’t grow far. So breakdown your phases in to smaller – make time to do your daily task. You will feel quite easy.
