Self confidence is the belief in one’s ability to succeed. Believing in your abilities even in awful of time is the real self confidence. Self confidence is very important in virtually every part of our lives. Few basic things to improve your level of self-confidence are by your behavior, your body language, how you speak, what you speak, and so on. First let me say a true story of Swami Vivekananda and his confidence.
“One important key to success is self-confidence. An important key to self-confidence is preparation.”
Arthur Ashe
Swami Vivekananda
Swami Vivekananda was having a lengthy trek in the Himalayas. On the way he found an old man who was very tired standing hopelessly at the foot of an upward slope. The old man said to Swamiji in frustration, ‘Oh, Sir, how to cross it; I cannot walk anymore; my heart will break.’
Swamiji listened to the old man patiently and then said, ‘Look down at your feet. The road that is under your feet is the road that you have passed over and is the same road that you see before you; it will soon be under your feet.’ These words encouraged the old man to recommence his onward trek.
S0, Bring light to the ignorant and bring more light to the intelligent…
Now, Building self confident is not five minute solution it takes time but it’s quite easy. Before that it’s important to know about types of confidence and its result.
Types of Self Confidence
There are three types in confidence level
- People with low Self-confident
- People with over self-confident.
- People with factual of self-confident
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People with low Self confident
A person who has good talent on specific thing but not able to do the task is due to lack of confidence or low confident level. He will avoid taking risks, hesitates to stretch himself and he may not try anything. The low confident people will put themselves in dark even though they clever.
These kinds of people must throw their fear out, build self- confidence, read motivation articles like self-motivation, motivation quotes etc. it helps to improve your confidence level, and work hard for success .
People with over self confident
When it comes to over confident people – He takes too much risk; stretch himself beyond his capabilities, they never takes others suggestion and they think that he is the only person capable to do it then they hit badly. These kind of people will have self-conceit too.
People with factual self confident
Getting the right amount of confident is in your mind . Right amount of confident is important for true success. You may know that you are optimistic but don’t try harder. First, know your reality and your true ability then have a right amount of self-confidence, now take a cognizant risks, stretch yourself but not away from your ability and try hard to succeed.
These kinds of self-confident people will have control in their lives, they believe that within reason and they are able to do what their desire, plan and expectation.
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Having self-confidence it’s not meaning that person will be clever to everything. Self-confident person have expectations that are truthful. Though when some of their expectation is not happened they never give up they just carry on being positive.